Once again I heard that marriage is work. Actually yesterday one friend said it's a pain in the ass, and it's compromise, compromise, compromise. So is marriage one big negotiation or what? So if you are happily married, what is it about being married that makes you happy? Why would you rather be married than single?
Honestly, I'm glad I am not doing the work of cooking dinner every single night or doing loads and loads of laundry. But why would that be my job? Or maybe those would be my jobs and the husband would have other jobs such as taking out the garbage and getting the oil changed in the cars. I have to take out my own garbage now and take my car in for oil changes.
is wanting children a valid reason for getting married? Or is that just marrying someone or just using them for their reproductive functions?