So I joined an online dating site, and for two weeks I had fun, lively, kind email and phone exchanges with a man. He wasn't my type, but there was so much in his words that captivated me. Then we met yesterday. After two hours into the date, I was ready to call it quits.
I did not feel attracted to him at all. None whatsoever. I didn't want to kiss him, I didn't want to hold his hand, nothing.
Yes, we met in a public place during the day with plenty of people around. Yes, at least three friends knew whom I was meeting, where, and what time. Yes, I reported in to them when I returned home. A woman can never be careful enough.
He has since emailed me several times, and I wrote him back that I didn't feel an attraction.